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<p>我们今天正式进入这本书,我先把整本书最重要的一句话告诉您:“<strong>富人永远不会为了钱而工作,他们会想尽办法让钱为自己工作。</strong></p>
<p>这句话背后所包含的意义,我先不做解释,在后面的节目中您会看到它一层一层的展开。那我们先来一起看看发生在小清崎身上的故事。</p>
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<p><strong>没有哪本书能直接把钱送到你手上</strong></p>
<p>从今天开始,我们要聊一个新的话题,关于理财,关于个人财富。要解读的这本书,是被誉为全球最好的理财入门书的《富爸爸穷爸爸》。这本书首次出版是在20年前,1999年的4月份的美国。在此后20年的时间里,它的销量经久不衰,各大图书销售和推荐榜单都可以看到这本书。</p>
<p>如果你是个读书人,是绝对不可能不知道它的大名。至今全球销量大约4000万册,影响了无数人的金钱观和价值观。</p>
<p>对于这本书的评语,多半是说它提出了很多切实可行的投资策略和理财方法,指导人们创造财富,最终走上财富自由之路。但是,我个人从来不觉得《富爸爸穷爸爸》是一本急功近利的财富指南。</p>
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<p>在上期节目当中我们说:<strong>绝大部分人是没有办法克服自己对于金钱的恐惧和欲望的,没钱的恐惧会促使我们努力的去工作,而在得到了工资报酬之后,欲望又让我们去消费更多的东西。</strong></p>
<p>这就形成了上班,挣钱,消费,然后更加努力的上班,挣更多的钱,消费更好的东西这样一种循环。给人们更多的钱,人们就会以更高的开支重复这种循环。这就像是老鼠掉进了有一个圆形的笼子里,任由它拼命的奔跑,但始终是在原地打转。这就是清崎所说的老鼠陷阱。</p>
<p><strong>对金钱的恐惧和欲望,是人生当中最大的一个陷阱,我们必须克服它。上期节目我们就是在强调一点:富人不会为钱而工作。</strong></p>
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<p>在之前的几期节目当中,我们一直都在反复的强调一句话:“<strong>富人不会为钱工作,他们会想尽办法让钱为自己工作。</strong></p>
<p><strong>对于没钱的恐惧和对于消费的欲望是人生当中最大的一个陷****阱。克服掉对于金钱恐惧和欲望,我们才能跳出“老鼠赛跑”的陷阱,不然永远都只是金钱的奴隶。</strong></p>
<p><strong>我们绝大部分人工作都是为了工资,可是富人工作,却是为了获得自己所需要的技能。工作永远只能用来维持生计,只有持续关注自己的事业,才有可能致富。这里所说的事业是指要不断累积自己的资产。</strong></p>
<p><strong>搞清楚资产和负债的区别,然后持续不断的买入资产,这就是富人致富的第一法则,也是唯一的一条法则</strong>。这是不是简单到令人不敢相信呢?</p>
<p><strong>富人和我们一样,当然也喜欢买买买,但是他们一定会延迟消费,尽量把自己能支配的每一块钱都投入到资产当中去,把钱都会变成一个不分昼夜为我们赚钱的雇佣兵。</strong>当我们投入到资产当中的钱越来越多的时候,就相当于拥有了一支为我们攻城拔寨,收获财富的强大军队一样。</p>
<p>而绝大部分人压根儿就没有组建这支军队的意识,只有当我们依靠资产性收入,而不是只依靠职务性收入生活的时候,我们才有可能成为富人。</p>
<p>今天这期节目,就为大家分享一些在关注自己的事业,组建这只为自己打工的军队的过程中,清崎给的一些忠告和建议。</p>
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<p><strong>社会心理学的奠基之作</strong></p>
<p>提到这本书的名字,应该没有哪位同学没有听过吧,它可以说是社会心理学的奠基之作,美国心理学界的泰斗,奥尔波特说:“在心理学领域,最有影响力的书,非《乌合之众》莫属。”在心理学界大名如雷贯耳的弗洛伊德,也深受这本书的启发,对其评价极高,说这是一本当之无愧的名著。</p>
<p><strong>《乌合之众》成书于1895年,到今天被翻译成了20多种语言,发行量已经无法统计了,它的影响力是我们频道之前提到的所有书都无法比拟的。</strong></p>
<p><strong>作者古斯塔夫·勒庞</strong>,1841年出生在法国。一开始他是学医的,25岁拿到了医学博士学位,之后一边游历世界各地,一边写了一些游记和关于人类学和考古学的书。他当过医生,在巴黎的人类学研究中心工作过,因为一篇医学论文还得过奖。一直到他43岁的时候,才开始研究社会心理学。但是,因为他的思想太过于激进和颠覆,引发了当时学界的不满,就被排挤出了官方的学术圈。于是勒庞成为了一位独立研究者。勒庞算是那个时代的通才,在人类学、自然科学和社会心理学3个方面都有所建树。而最终让他在学术界名声大噪留名后世的还是这本《乌合之众》。</p>
<p><strong>群体的智慧是丧失理智,群体的力量就是暴力</strong></p>
<p>我们常说“众人拾柴火焰高”、“三个臭皮匠顶个诸葛亮”,都是在肯定群体的智慧和力量。但是勒庞却告诉我们:“胡扯,根本不是这么回事儿,<strong>群体的智慧表现出的是丧失理智,而群体的力量表现出来的则是赤裸裸的暴力。</strong></p>
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<p><strong>群体的定义</strong></p>
<p>首先,什么才是勒庞所说的群体?</p>
<p>只要是一群人凑在一起就可以了吗?不是的,像是在广场上闲逛的人群,虽然在空间上聚集在了一起,但是他们并没有共同的心理诉求。而如果这个时候有人大喊说:“地震了,赶紧跑。”所有人都开始往空地上奔跑,这一瞬间,人们有了一致的自保心理,群体就形成了。</p>
<p><strong>拥有相同的心理诉求就是群体的定义。</strong></p>
<p>即便在空间上没有聚集在一起也是可以的。最典型的就是股民,虽然散落在世界各地,但是他们都有通过股票获利的共同心理,所以他们就构成了一个群体。或者说有当什么国家大事儿发生,很多人共同考虑这件事情的时候,也就构成了一个群体。</p>
<p>有人解释认为说那些被严格组织起来的人群,像是学生,企业员工或者是军队,是不属于勒庞所说的这类群体的。但是我还是觉得,即便是高度组织化的人群,依然会表现出部分乌合之众的特征,在后面的讲述中我们都可以自己试着辨别一下。</p>
<p><strong>在个人进入群体之后,个人意识会被群体心理所替代。群体的整体表现与个人的表现完全不同。做一个形象的比喻就是每个个人都是一个细胞,而群体则是这些细胞所组成的生物。整个生命体和它身上某个单独细胞的表现当然是完全不同的。</strong></p>
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<p><strong>那为什么个人进入群体之后,他自己就会性情大变呢?有三个原因:本能、传染和暗示。</strong></p>
<p><strong>另外我们还介绍了群体的一些特征,残暴、极端和智力的泯灭。今天这期节目,我们继续来看由个人所构成的群体,还会表现出哪些与个人截然相反的特征。</strong></p>
<p><strong>形象、简单的思维方式</strong></p>
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<p><strong>先来回顾一下上期节目说了些什么,我们主要就是回答了一个问题,个人进入到群体之后,会性情大变,原因是原始本能的释放,在暗示和传染的影响之下被潜意识所控制。我们在这个答案的基础上再追问一层,那么决定群体行为的底层代码又是什么呢?</strong></p>
<p><strong>1、勒庞的回答是间接因素和直接因素,间接因素是观念和思想在群体当中的长期影响,直接因素是引爆群体行为的导火索。前者像是长时间的虫啃蚁噬,后者则是一次猛烈的台风,房屋看上去是被台风摧毁的,但其内部早就已经千疮百孔。</strong></p>
<p><strong>2、长期因素分别是民族性格、传统和时间。每个民族都在漫长的时间当中培养出了自己独特的性格与传统,这是别的民族不可复制的,也是短期之内无法改变的。</strong></p>
<p><strong>3、勒庞特别指出,我们以为通过政治制度建设和国民教育可以扭转一个民族的发展方向,甚至改变民族的整体性格,这其实是做不到的。首先,一个民族其实根本没有办法随意的选择制度,就像我们没办法决定自己头发和眼睛的颜色一样,统治方式是民族自己的性格所决定的,而并非某一界政府可以左右。其次,制度本身并没有好坏之分,只有合适与否。看似专注的君主制却成就了最民主的英国,而看似民主的共和制,在很多国家依然表现出了极端的专制主义。</strong></p>
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<p><strong>当孩子出现不良行为的时候,我们可以给他拥抱,和他一起去暂停,陪他看本书,玩一会游戏。当然了,这不是在奖励不良行为,而是在教会孩子怎么在生气的时候用尊重的方式处理自己的情绪。</strong></p>
<p>当孩子长大一些,会发生权力争夺和报复的时候,家长应该主动撤出。家里的卫生间就可以很好的利用,在里面放些杂志,方本书甚至放一个音响。有的家长喜欢用洗个澡或者出去商店逛一圈的方式来进行暂停和情绪的撤出。不管我们采用什么办法,最重要的是保持对孩子尊重的态度。我们的撤出不是要离开孩子,而是为了照顾彼此的情绪,等我们都好起来之后,更好的解决问题。</p>
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